Gary Richard Siegel
It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Gary Richard Siegel, who left us on October 13, 2025, at the age of 90. He was a beloved husband, brother, uncle, cousin, father, grandparent, great-grandparent, and friend who touched the lives of all who knew him.
Born in Orange County, California, on June 30, 1935, Gary grew up to be a person of great character, kindness, and strength. He dedicated his life to his wife Judy, his family, service in the Tustin Community, and friendships, always striving to help others and make a positive difference in the world.
Gary is survived by his wife Judy Siegel, sister Patricia Gibson, daughter and son-in-law Bob and Susie McIntosh, son Kenneth Siegel, four grandsons and their wives Tony & Nikki McIntosh, Trevor and Samantha McIntosh, Ryan and Elizabeth Siegel, and Robert (Bud) and Devon McIntosh, and eleven great-grandchildren, and will be deeply missed by all who loved him.
Gary’s dedication to community and youth development was evident throughout his life. He was an active member of the Future Farmers of America, Chapter 208, in the 1950s, where he developed a lifelong passion for agriculture and leadership. He was the founder and president of the Tustin Blue and Gold 4-H Club, the President of Tustin Eastern Little League, an Indian Guides Chief, and served as an officer on the Tustin High School Student Council during his school years before later becoming an Alumni Reunion Organizer. He continued his service as a Charter Member and Board Member of the Tustin Jaycees, a Board Member of the Tustin Area Historical Society, and as a two-time President and Lifetime Member of the Tustin Host Lions Club. In recognition of his contributions, he was honored as the City of Tustin’s Tustin Area Man of the Year in 2001.
A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, November 12, 2025, at 10:00am at Waverley Chapel, 1702 Fairhaven Avenue, Santa Ana. A brief Graveside Service will immediately follow. A reception will be held from 12:30pm until 3:00pm, location TBD. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in Gary Siegel’s memory to the Tustin Host Lions Club and mailed to THLC, P.O. Box 66, Tustin, CA 92781. The Tustin Lions Club was Gary’s favorite service club; he was the perfect embodiment of the club's motto, "WE SERVE." All proceeds will benefit the Tustin Community.
Gary will be remembered for his devotion to family, community, and leadership, as well as his sense of humor and wisdom. The legacy he leaves behind will continue to inspire us all. May he Rest In the Peace of our Good Lord and Savior Jesus Christ
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Judy, Susie and family, we are so sorry for your loss, Gary was a great guy, he was such a wonderful role model, and blessed to be loved by so many people, he is the true description of a life well lived, God Bless all of you, RIP Gary,
Cyndie Jobb purchased Eco-Friendly Memorial Trees for Gary Siegel
Al and Hilary Baker
Friend
10/25/2025
Gary was one of the kindest and friendliest people we have known through the years. Al spent many years in THLC together with Gary. Judy and Susie. They were wonderful, memorable years. One of the things I admired most was the loving Grandfather and family represented in Facebook posts. What a precious, God-given gift. Our prayers are with all your family
Al and Hilary Baker
Tony Coco
Friend
10/28/2025
Always a true Lion, even when escaping his sponsor to check out the Rotary Club… I will miss this irreplaceable joker, unmatchable human being and friend.
Gary left a huge footprint on this earth, he was one of the best, a true legend!
John Griffin
Friend
10/21/2025
Our heart felt condolences go out to Judy, Susie, the Siegel & McIntosh families.. 🙏
Cyndie Jobb (O'Connell)
Friend
10/19/2025
What a legacy he left. I can still hear his voice and thoughtful cadence of speech. He had such a distinctive voice. What a gardener. I never knew vegetables could taste good and not be from a can;). He will be missed by Judy, Susie, his entire family and all his friends. He is up there in heaven planting a garden and telling stories! I am so sad he is gone but he will never be forgotten💔
Julie Gibson-Vasquez
Family
10/19/2025
Sending my thoughts to Judy, Susie, and the rest of Gary’s family, hoping warm memories and the prospect of reuniting with Gary in the future bring you some peace. I know he will be missed terribly. He was a fantastic man, my uncle. I hold many warm memories of Uncle Gary, especially childhood memories of beach celebrations and visits to his home in Tustin. Love you Uncle Gary. Hugs to his family. Julie
Aunt Suz, first of all, we’re so sorry for the loss of your Father. I talked to the boys and told them what I’m going to tell you. What a beautiful man, with such a great long life lived to the fullest! He was a stud, always so nice to us and interested in what we were doing… he loved your boys and will be missed dearly.
He was the absolute best papa. I didn't grow up with any grandpas on either side, and I feel so blessed and thankful to have had him in my life all these years. I'll miss him so much…
Papas mit up there next to Boompas puzzle
Our hearts are so heavy and we are so deeply sad to hear the news about Grandpa. We loved him so much. We are thinking about you and you are on our hearts. If we can help with anything in any way, we are here to help. Please give our love to Grandma. We love you.
I am so sorry as tears fill my eyes. I had no idea. You are so blessed with your family. Love you – give my love to your mom.🙏💕🙏💕 This photo was taken in April 2016. Serving together through Tustin Lions Club.
Bob and Susie, I just heard the news about your Dad passing and I wanted you both to know how very sorry I am, for you and the whole family. You know, I didn't know him real well, but every time we were together, he was always so nice to me and I liked him very much. I know you'll miss him terribly. You all are in my prayers tonight. Be thinking of you all this weekend and missing you both. 🙏❤️🙏
Susie we are thinking of you and your mom. Also thinking of Gary and my memories over the years. Center of the gathering and storyteller. He’ll be missed. ❤️🙏 Hi Susie, I just wanted to tell you that I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad was such a sweet man. Sending love and hugs. 😘
I just wanted to tell you how much I love you and how much I'm thinking about you and Grandma. ❤️😢🙏🏼
Hi guys.. we are extremely saddened by the news of Gary's passing.. Our heartfelt condolences go to you & family.. Please express our sorrow to lovely Judy as well..
RIP Gary Siegel 🙏 I’m going to miss him. I loved talking with him. Big hugs to everyone, especially Judy. Love You All! 🙏🏻❤️
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Sorry to hear about your dad. What a wonderful legacy and family he put together. Thinking of you and your beautiful mama.
We were so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. Please accept our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
We know how close you were to him, and we can imagine the loss you are feeling.
May you find comfort in the memories you shared and strength in the love and support of those around you.
If there is anything we can do, whether now or in the days to come, please don’t hesitate to let us know.
Please let your mom know we are thinking of her and sending love.
Hi Mom/Noma,
We are thinking of you so much!
Tony, Mason, Miles, and I wanted to make something to honor Grandpa. The boys helped, and we made this for you and Grandma. We are framing one for each of you. 💕
I’m so so sorry to hear about Papa Gary’s passing 😭, our only consolation is he is in a much better place than all of us , no more pain and suffering , Heaven gained another angel in him , he will be missed a lot , rest in peace Papa Gary 🙏🙏 Please watch over GG , Noma Sue ,and all the grandkids and great grands , We Love you so much …. Cory
Love you both dearly! Thank you again for the absolute honor of being welcomed in and trusted to walk alongside your beautiful family! Today was a beautiful day. I'm sure your beloved Gary was smiling down on it all from heaven!!
I’m all yours, Judy!!🥹🥰🙏🏽
Susie, so very sorry about the loss of your dad. He was a lovely knowledgeable guy that I always enjoyed talking to.
There are no words to adequately express how sorry I am. I love you very much. I pray Grandpa feels peace. I love him very much, and I feel so lucky to have had him in my life. My heart truly breaks for you and Grandma. GG & Papa’s love is one for the ages, and their story and commitment will always live on.
I know today is overwhelming and surreal. I just wanted to say that I’m wrapping you in love.
“Death takes the body.
God takes the soul.
Our mind holds the memories.
Our heart keeps the love.
Our faith lets us know we will meet again.” 🤍
Photos of Dad. I love you. Until we meet again…Bye For Now 🙏🏼❤️
Barbara Squyres
I loved him like a brother What a fine man he was
Kim Mowers DeBenedetto
It was such a wonderful tribute to Gary’s life! I love how each of your four grandson’s told of their special relationship with him. So very touching! many hugs to you and your family.
Scott Thoele
Beautiful service for a wonderful man. You were both so blessed to find each other and have so many decades of love together. God bless you, Judy! It was wonderful to see you after far too many years. Our prayers for you and your family continue.
Susan Read
I am so sorry. I always looked forward to Gary's Emails with your news.I live in Virginia or I would have attended his memorial service. You are in my prayers. Susan Smith Read
Bill Teer
Enjoy your new life old friend
Dean George
Bubbling Wells will never be the same
Vera Balderrama
Just, my deepest condolences to you and your family. You were so lucky to have each other for
so many years., Vera
Cherrill Cady
He was special Judy. I am glad you shared so many years together
Marian Reinhardt Barrett
Bless your heart Judy. Gary will surely be missed. But he is rejoicing in Heaven with your boys.
Chuck Puckett
SO SORRY!!!
Ilse Hoyt
Sorry for your loss but he’s in a better place. Love you
Linda Siegel
He was such a good example of faith and love
Sherry Johnson Dougherty
I’m so sorry for your loss ,God Bless you , giant hugs to you sweet lady
Patty Ruffalo
Bless your heart! Sincere condolences!
Kellee Schultz Lotz
You are in my thoughts, Judy. I remember Gary as a neighbor when I lived with my family on Skyline Dr in Tustin. So sorry —his love for you was central to everything he was.
Barbara Squyres
A really good guy
Robert McKinley
Judy I just heard about Gary’s passing. Love you so much! 69 years WOW! A testimony of starting early. Judy love to you and Gary. Hoping Gary and Joan have found each other on the other side of the veil, i’ll call you next week. Bob McKinley, for Joan Sandstrom McKinley Tustin class of ’57
Jean Brodhead
Judy, we were so sorry to hear about Gary’s passing. We were very fond of him and will miss him. But our deepest sympathies go with to you and your lovely family at this time.
Shelby Anderson Holland
I'm so sorry for your loss
Helen K Homer
The two of you are role models. Thank you for sharing. Gary & I crossed paths on Esplanade, we looked at each other and said "I know you" but we couldn't figure out from what part of our world. He was such a sweet person. We moved out of CA January 2019, to Florida then in 2023 The Black Hills of South Dakota where our daughter settled. You have a treasure chest of wonderful memories with Gary. Take care. Helen
Earl J. Prescott
Gary was one of my early childhood role models-leading our local Tustin Blue & Gold 4-H Club with integrity and commitment. He was a deeply cherished and respected member of the Tustin community. Our sincere condolences to you and your family, and my heartfelt thanks for having known him.
Kim Kay
Judy you guys have been invincible for as long as I can remember. Gary’s love for you was always on display and his kindness and humor adored by many including me.
You guys are a role model to us younger couples.
God bless you and Susie and your families
Jeannine Irwin
Judy, I'm so sorry. I enjoyed his face book stories with family and blessed to have known you both for so many years. I love you and God Bless
In the McGuire Family, we call it 'winning the lottery' when we think of our Mom & Dad. I think of how lucky you are, along with all the family that stayed close to Gary – he was truly an extraordinary man whose spirit reflected love and peace. I can't even imagine Gary being upset or too busy to stop and listen. That beautiful spirit lives on in you and the rest of the family, along with so many others he crossed paths with…including me. Pat Boone would say that Gary just 'changed addresses' – but the loss must be crushing. God Speed Gary
Judy Siegel and Susie Mcintosh purchased Memory Book for Gary Siegel